Sibling Support

 

Specific Resources for Supporting Brothers and Sisters

Ways To Play and Explain Cancer and Treatment

  • Young girl playing with baby dolls with central lines

    Medical Equipment Toys

    Toys like these are usually available from the Child Life Specialist. Your child can see lines that may be on a sibling and ask questions about what they do.

  • Young girl cutting pink play-doh with scissors

    Use Play-Doh or Alternative

    This is a great way to help children understand cancers like tumors. For example, my daughter made a dough head and we used a different color to make a tumor to put inside. We talked about how it didn’t belong and we can’t see what is making her sister sick.

  • child with stethoscope on dolls

    Sick Play

    Some children may start to pretend to play that they are sick. Let them play! Pretend to be the nurse or doctor and explain what is happening. My daughter did this a lot with herself as the patient or her stuffed animals.

Ideas to Keep Siblings Involved

Videos

 

 Publications

“The Perfect Shelter” by Clare Helen Welsh and Åsa Gilland

Parenting Siblings” from Together powered by St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

CancerCare: Helping Children When a Family Member Has Cancer by CancerCare

Audio

For Parents, Caregivers and Professionals: Helping Brothers and Sisters of Children Living with Cancer (1 hour) by CancerCare